5 Ways to Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

1. Add a Video – Stop Hiding Behind Stale Photos

Yes, it’s a video-based dating app, but let’s talk about the power of video for a second. Too many people stress about looking perfect or saying the "right thing." Forget that. The right person will like you for who you are, not for your cinematography skills. A short, casual clip of you talking, laughing, or doing something you love is 100x more attractive than a bunch of perfectly filtered stills. Show some energy, personality, and let people see the real you.

Pro tip: Keep it simple. A 10-second clip of you hyping up your favorite coffee spot or ranting (playfully) about pineapple on pizza is enough to spark a real connection.

2. Show Your Interests – People With Purpose Are Irresistible

A blank bio is like walking into a party and just standing there. Nobody knows what to say to you. The more you share, the easier it is for someone to find a reason to start a conversation. Whether it’s your obsession with true crime podcasts, your weekend hiking adventures, or the fact that you make a mean homemade pizza, put it out there.

Also, let’s be honest—the algorithm likes active users. Adding more info helps boost your profile so more people actually see you. Win-win.

3. Become Who You Want to Attract

You don’t get what you want. You get what you ARE. If you’re looking for someone fun, adventurous, and ambitious, ask yourself—are you bringing that same energy? If you want deep conversations, post something thought-provoking. If you love humor, show it in your profile. Dating isn’t about attracting just anyone—it’s about attracting the right ones.

Mindset shift: The more you focus on becoming the best version of yourself, the more the right people will naturally find their way to you.

4. Drop the Generic One-Liners – Be Playful Instead

If your bio says "Just ask me," congratulations—you just made sure nobody will. Instead, throw in something fun that actually invites conversation. A quirky statement, an inside joke about your favorite movie, or even a “Two Truths and a Lie” game makes you 10x more approachable than the standard “I love traveling and food.”

Example: "I once convinced a bouncer I was a lost tourist from Norway. Ask me how." (Spoiler: people will ask.)

5. Post a Variety of Photos – But Make Them Count

Think of your photos as a movie trailer for your life. If all you’ve got is selfies, you’re basically showing people a single frame. Mix it up! Add a candid laugh, a travel shot, something from your hobbies. Your photos should tell a story about who you are, not just what you look like.

Bonus: Avoid sunglasses in every picture—people like to see eyes.

Final Thought: Stand Out by Being Real

The biggest mistake people make in online dating? Trying to be what they think others want. The easiest way to stand out is to be unapologetically yourself. The right person isn’t looking for perfect—they’re looking for you.

So go tweak that profile, add that video, and start attracting matches who actually get you. And hey, if you’re still swiping through the same old profiles, maybe it’s time to try something new—like BokBok, where video makes real connections happen. Just saying 😉