Should You Kiss Her on the First Date?

First dates are a clown show: weird silences, sweaty hands, and the big question—should you go for the kiss? If you’re clicking and she’s cracking up at your terrible puns, why not? Here’s the quick, no-BS guide to making the first move without looking like a total dork.

Confidence Is Hot, Playing It Safe Is Lame

Real talk: going for a kiss shows you’ve got balls. Most guys are too busy overthinking to even try. But a dude who can lean in—knowing he might get the cheek? That’s the kind of confidence that makes her go, “Wait, who is this guy?” Even if she swerves, you’ve left an impression. Better than being the dude who just waves goodbye like a scared puppy.

Timing’s a Mess, So Don’t Overthink It

There’s no “perfect moment.” This ain’t a rom-com with slow-mo and violins. Maybe she’s digging for her keys, or you’re both snorting over a greasy taco. If it feels right, go for it. Overthink it, and you’ll miss the shot. I knew a guy who waited so long she was basically halfway home before he grew a pair. Don’t be him.

How to Not Screw It Up

✅ Read the vibe – Is she leaning in, laughing, brushing your arm? Green light. Staring at her phone or sitting like she’s ready to bolt? Red light. Easy.

✅ Keep it smooth – No need for a cheesy line. Catch her eye, smirk, lean in. If she’s down, boom! If not, laugh it off. “Guess I’m striking out tonight—next time!”

🚫 Don’t sulk – Nobody’s got time for a crybaby.

Rejection? Meh, No Big Deal

A “no” doesn’t mean you’re trash. Maybe she’s shy, maybe she’s not feeling it—whatever. Point is, you tried. And that’s hotter than sitting there wondering “what if.” I’ve seen guys get dodged, crack a joke, and still get a text the next day. Confidence sticks. Whining doesn’t.

So, Grow a Pair and Go For It!

Next date, if the vibe’s good, don’t wuss out. Lean in, take your shot, and own it—even if you miss. Worst case? You’ve got a funny story. Best case? Well… you’ll see.